Have you talked to your wife about what she will do with the info? Does she want to talk to them or "just" look? How would she feel if you started looking in the past for exes as well? Curiosity is one thing. But getting back in touch is a whole other bag of crap-apples. I absolutely agree with Auntie Cindy, WHO cares about the people of your past?
Auntie BB has given you some good financial advice. But make sure you get away from him for the time being, if you can't get him to move out fr legal reasons stay with relatives friends if possible. Let him see what he's losing because if he carries on like this he's asking to lose you. His behaviour is unacceptable.
Reply to this Question Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A female reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 June 2014): I agree with Auntie Cindy (as usual) He isn't that keen on dating you. And what he wants is sex on a platter. When it's CONVENIENT for him. I'd skip this guy.
A female reader, Auntie Jez +, writes (24 February 2009): Hi Honey I dont think that he will be that bothered as men dont tend to be that into anniversaries unless it is an important one. Dont worry he probably is not thinking about it - he is probably just thinking how lucky he is to be going out with you!!!
I agree with Auntie BimBim WHO the hay! checks their spouse' panty color before they leave the house? And have you considered that menopause, age and less strong muscles have made her urinary tract less strong - so a good laugh, cough or sneeze can leave a drop or two of pee coming out.
A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006): dear reader don't panic hunni theres nothing wrong with you people deal with sex so many different ways you will come to learn that there's nothing to be affraid of you say you feel like this in class well may i suggest you get some books and read a home then hearing in school won't hit you so hard and you have the added bonus of knowing ...